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Reverend Thomas Webster Senior Minister @ FCC
Who is Tom Webster? Tom
came to Loveland
from Besides
being our Senior Pastor, Tom serves on the Central Rocky Mountain Regional
Board, he is the Chairperson of the Regional Committee on the Order of Ministry,
he serves on the Regional Committee of Ministry for Congregational
Transformation, and our Region has trained him to be a Certified Coach for
congregations and individuals. He
currently serves as Community Spiritual Director for the Lookout Mountain Great
Banquet Community and Past Commander of the Loveland Police Chaplains.
He also serves on the Colorado Housing Justice Task Force, an Advisory
Board for Group Publishing’s Rev. Magazine, the Institutional Review Board for
Banner Health, and the Executive Board of the Loveland Berthoud Salvation Army.
This summer he will be Chaplain and Co-Director at our high school camp. Tom's
District, Regional, and
His
past Professional Leadership Honors include:
Tom
lives with his wife of 35 years, Christy. He
has three grown children, Andy married to Jennifer, Jennifer married to David
Gray, and Matt engaged to Jennifer. He
has three grandsons, Daniel, Simon, and Xavier. His
hobbies are golfing, hiking, reading, racquetball, photography, fishing and
horseshoes.
Tom's Toolbox For Christians At Work
As a youth I
often walked the two miles to a small lagoon near the Des Moines River with my
trusty rod, reel and tackle box in hand, ready to catch a big fish.
I had entered a fishing derby there one spring and won second place for
the biggest fish in my age bracket and since then I expected another big fish
every time I went. I watched other
fishermen and tried to copy their techniques and I envied their fancy equipment. Many of the
others fishing there used an open faced bait casting reel that looked much
better than my little Zebco 202. One
day I decided to “borrow” one of my parent’s bait casting reels and set
off to the lagoon convinced that I would bring home the “big” one that day.
I found the perfect place, baited my hook with a large nightcrawler I
caught the night before, cast out toward the deep water, and suddenly a bird’s
nest of line exploded out of the reel.
To make a long
story a little shorter, I didn’t catch any fish that day.
I spent all my time unbinding my line, casting out, and unbinding my line
yet again. It took several trips to
the lagoon to learn how to use that reel, and even today I create bird’s nests
every once in a while. We can easily
get tangled and knotted up in life. Broken
dreams, bitter disappointments, damaging relationships, discouraging job
situations, destructive habits, and unresolved guilt and anger bind our hearts
and prevent us from experiencing and sharing the fullness of God’s grace.
When our hearts get bound up it is very difficult to fulfill our calling
as fishers of people for Christ. Next month we
will begin our preparation for Easter with the theme of “Unbinding Our
Hearts” based on a book of that name by Martha Grace Reese.
We will spend the 40 days of Lent in prayer, study and faith sharing
groups with the intent of unbinding our hearts to deepen our relationship with
God and one another. We can only
share what we have nurtured and experienced in our own lives, and many have
allowed themselves to stay knotted for years. We will share
more later, but plan to join a group and get your heart unbound for Christ.
See you in church and remember. God
loves you and so do I!
Previous Issues of Tom's Toolbox FOR cHRISTIANS
Many people
take time at the beginning of the year to look seriously at their life and
consider their future. We often make
resolutions to change habits and activities to reach our goals.
I hope we all set self improvement goals this year, but how do we judge
what needs to be changed? What
should we keep in our life and what should we hold on to? Last month I
was looking for a letter we had received while we were on vacation.
I searched through the stacks of mail on our table and kitchen counter
yet I could not find that letter! I
was getting frustrated and then I thought, “Did I throw it away in the
trash?” Perhaps I threw
it away with some the stacks of junk mail we received while we were gone.
I looked in the wastebasket under the sink, but I found nothing.
Finally I was about search through our garbage can outside when I found
the letter! Have you ever
checked the trash for something you might have thrown away?
One time after youth group I got a call from a parent that their child
had lost their retainer and we searched through the garbage cans and dumpster at
the church but did not find it. I
imagine everyone has thrown something away and later realized its worth. It is said that
we are a “throw away” society, and nothing today is made to last.
We use things and discard them, but unfortunately we discard a lot of
important items with the trash. We
are too quick to dump and too late to discern value and worth. We throw away
principles and priorities, good manners and generosity, compassion and kindness,
reasonable ethics and attitudes of grace. We
even throw away people and children before they have a chance to succeed or
fail. Yet our greatest loss has been
when we throw away our faith to make our fortune. What do we keep
that we should throw away and what have we thrown away that we should have kept?
Have we kept the commitment we made when we became a Christian?
Have we kept our willingness to love, serve and share what God has given
us in our time, talent and treasure? I think it is
time to make every effort to recover our faith and relationship with God.
Take a moment right now to prayerfully discern what we need to rescue or
recover in our walk with God. God
gives us grace and strength every day to reclaim what we have lost.
God loved us
enough to send us Jesus to pull us out of the trash and help us become a
treasure. Let us consider how we
will share our treasure in our church and community.
I have some suggestions: join the High Five Club, help out with Fundango
or Inner-faith Hospitality Network, volunteer to be a youth sponsor or Sunday
school teacher, sign up for a class, volunteer to help fund or work in our new
Transportation ministry, visit a shut-in, begin to tithe 10%, attend church
every Sunday, join a fellowship group, help with the remodeling of Minnerly
Hall, sign up to help when the General Assembly is held in our church, or join
the choir or praise team. The list
is endless but the difference we will make is priceless! As we dedicate ourselves to God, our life gains infinite value and worth. See you in church and remember. God loves you and so do I!
Last week when I went to visit Delmer in the
hospital I saw a family nervously waiting to visit a patient.
Their anxiety reminded me of a time when I sat with a family during a
surgery talking about their difficult struggles.
Suddenly the uncle of the patient shared this insight: “I have learned
in my life that you can’t stop the wind, but you can adjust your sails.” I understood him saying that the force and
direction of the challenges and circumstances of our life are often beyond our
control, but we can control our actions and attitudes in the midst of them.
I know the truth of that saying, but I don’t find it easy to live by.
I would rather ask God to stop the wind, or ask someone else to change
than to adjust my own sails. We want our circumstances and other people to
change. We don’t want to have to
adjust or adapt. We want everyone
and everything else to change except ourselves. We spend a lot of time and energy trying to
stop the wind or trying to get other people to adjust their sails.
We change jobs, husbands, wives, friends, and even churches to avoid
changing ourselves. We even try to
change God. We must begin change within ourselves and the
way that we handle our circumstances. The
winds of life can blow mightily, but we do not have to let them drive us off
course from God or stop us completely. Instead
of cursing the wind, we need to learn to use it! If we adjust our sails we can let the force of
the wind give us power to move closer to God and God’s purposes.
We can grow through our struggles like Paul talked about in Romans 5:
“knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character,
and character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s
love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given
to us.” If we invite God to sail
with us nothing is impossible. Think for a moment on how we need to adjust
the sails of our life. Adjusting our
sails could be a change of attitude toward someone that irritates or annoys us.
Adjusting our sails could be a change of priorities in how we spend our
time and money. Adjusting our sails
could be a willingness to stand up, step down, or begin a new direction in our
life. Adjusting our sails could mean
a whole new beginning in our life and relationship with God. Right now is the perfect time to adjust our
sails and let the force of our challenges bring us closer together as a church.
We need to begin with each of us prioritizing our relationship and walk
with God. What do we need to do to
better know, grow and show the love of God to the world? This time of year can be a struggle for all of
us, but remember there are others struggling with problems even more difficult
than ours. Let us adjust our sails
and stay on course with God. Let the
wind of God’s spirit drive us forward into a brighter future. Invite your friends to join us at church each
Sunday as celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior.
See you in church and remember. God
loves you and so do I!
“Survivor
First Christian Church” I don’t know if you have ever watched any of
the “Survivor” television shows, but watching these people scheme and plot
to get rid of one another has always bothered me.
The only reason they form alliances are to destroy one another, and
eventually they betray even their own team.
I don’t think I could play that game very well. These shows sparked my imagination for another
new series. I would like to see a
show with a more realistic setting. What
if instead of castaways on a tropical island or remote part of the world the
show would focus on a diverse group of people joined together somewhere in
Colorado. They could enlist volunteers of every age,
sex, race and cultural background. Their
common bond would be their mutual desire for continued existence.
People would tune in each week to watch them struggle to survive against
the stresses of economic hardships, relational dysfunctions and deteriorating
emotional and physical health. New challenges would confront the group each
week testing their creativity, strength and endurance.
Their hardships would force them to combine their resources and skills to
work together as a team. Open
communication and cooperation would be essential for health and success. The need for bonding and the forming new
relationships would grow daily. The
challenges would require as much faith and trust in each other, as in
themselves. Alliances would then be
formed providing encouragement and support to achieve goals and survive the
trials and tribulations. Strong leadership would be a key element of
survival. They would need leaders to
inspire and guide them through the obstacles to success.
Leaders would provide a vision of goals and purposes, and coordinate the
resources available to achieve them. Instead of trying to get rid of members of the
group, the group would focus on expansion and growth.
Openness and inclusion would replace elimination and exclusion.
Then instead of “Survivor” we could name the new series “First
Christian Church of Loveland.” Jesus brings us together and challenges us to
help everyone survive. Christ calls
us to love and care for each other, to lift up those who fall and support those
who are weak. We find our own
salvation only as we dedicate ourselves to working together to save others. Right now we face a great challenge for our
congregation. When the budget was
proposed and voted down it created tension and strong feelings between the
leadership, the congregation and the staff.
We cannot let these differences divide or distract us from our mission
and ministry. We have to love and
forgive one another, and find a way to come together as a church.
We have to each dedicate ourselves to the
common goal of our mission of knowing, growing and showing the love of God.
We must each give of our time, talent and treasure or we will lose
members, leaders and staff and not achieve this mission.
I want you to take a moment right now and pray, asking God to show you
what you can do. For us to move forward as a church some people
will need to ask forgiveness for their words, actions or attitudes.
Some people will have to stop holding back and give more.
All of us must commit ourselves to be Disciples of Christ and reach out
to the world inviting them to join us on “Survivor First Christian Church.”
We must not let this series end. I pray that we would see a vision for this
congregation that would be inclusive, tolerant and loving.
I pray that we will be able to set aside our differences and work
together to reach this community for Christ.
I pray that we will each commit ourselves to do our part to make this
vision happen. Imagine the
difference we will make together. “Let us hold fast to the confession of our
hope without wavering, for he who has promised is faithful.
And let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good deeds not
neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one
another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” (Hebrews10:23-25) Come join us for worship Sunday and bring
others with you. I will see you in
church and remember; God loves you and so do I!
Our grown children and their friends often
stop by so we never know who will show up at our house at dinnertime.
We have learned to be prepared to serve anywhere from two to twelve at a
moment’s notice. Our dinners may
not be fancy, but we always have plenty of food and it’s good to eat. We also maintain a steady supply of leftovers
in our refrigerator. We eat lunches
from our leftovers for days. Then
every so often we put it all together like a potluck dinner. Don’t get me wrong; unlike many people I
enjoy eating leftovers. I wouldn’t
scrounge through our neighbor’s refrigerator, but I don’t mind eating them
from our own. I enjoy eating our
leftovers because I ate from them the first time around. I doubt if any of us would consider serving
leftovers to guests, especially if they were special guests we care about.
We probably also would not like being served leftovers at a restaurant.
Leftovers are only acceptable to us when they are our own, and I know
some people won’t even eat their own leftovers. Why then do we expect God to be happy with the
leftovers of our life? God is often
the last we serve with our time, our talent and our treasure.
We owe everything we are and everything we have to God yet how often do
we serve or put God first in our life? First we usually serve ourselves, then our
family, then our friends and somewhere mixed in with community and the people we
don’t know, we might serve God. When
nothing is leftover, guess whom we leave out completely?
No matter how much we have, we will never have enough until we learn to
serve God first. If we serve and put God first, then there is
always enough for what we need and more. God
wants to be first in our life. If
you are ever tired of leftovers, then think about how God feels.
I want to challenge you right now to join in a
great adventure of faith. Together
we will put God first and trust God for our future.
We begin Sunday, November 18th by committing
our time, talent and treasure to God. I invite you to reflect on how you serve God
and imagine how it would be different if you really put God first.
Our commitment to God translates into ministry to members and our entire
community. Our offering outflows to
the world sharing God’s love. In January we will begin classes from Crown
Financial that will teach practical principles on how to manage our resources
from God’s perspective. We will
have room for 8 couples or individuals in the 10 week class.
Watch for more information. I challenge us to begin serving God less
leftovers. I will see you in church
and remember; God loves you and so do I!
Almost every day I drive past a former restaurant north
of the church. It has been empty for
years and may stay that way if no one sees value and purpose in the property.
I often look at it and dream of what it could be if someone cared to help
it become. It reminds me of a property I saw years ago that had a
“For Sale” sign on it for a long time. Someone
had planted beautiful roses on the outside of the building, but the inside was
cold and empty. The building looked
very attractive on the outside, but it needed an owner with vision and hope to
give it purpose and meaning inside. Sometimes we have the same problem as those properties.
We may look good on the outside with all the possessions and positions
that the world offers. But
truthfully without God as our owner, we are empty inside and we find ourselves
struggling without intent or direction. Sometimes we give temporary ownership of our life to
other things, and for a while our life has purpose.
We focus all our life and energy on our career, education or a
relationship. We may even feel
fulfilled and satisfied, but in a very short time these owners abuse and abandon
us leaving us cold and empty. Our career, education and relationships are important,
but they should never own us. The
only owner that can bring joy and fulfillment to our life is God.
The question is, “How do we give ownership of our life to God?” Transferring ownership to God is not about giving up
things, because Jesus paid the price with his love and life.
We just allow God to move in and redecorate our hearts and minds.
Then God gives shape to our future by guiding and empowering our daily
life. A good test to see who or what owns us is to look at
how we spend our time, talent and treasure.
Whatever we prioritize first and give our most to is what owns us.
If we put God first in our life, it changes everything. |